2 Samuel 13 Part 1–When the Unforgivable Happens

There is no good news in this story.  God promised David that because of his great sin that his own house would always be in turmoil. So was the case with Amnon and Tamar.  Amnon simply disregarded all rule of propriety and raped his sister. He should have been immediately killed and Tamar cared for. Neither happened. David was furious, Tamar’s Brother Absolom crushed and bitter–but nothing was either said or done to Amnon.
 
Sometimes things get so horrible that all are left in wonder of how to proceed.  In this case, David should have taken quick and extreme action.  Here David sat with his own guilt and shame and did not respond.  We cannot simply do nothing when such evil is committed.  A wise man said once, “Evil thrives when good men do nothing!” Had David taken action immediately, so much pain would have been healed and his kingdom would not have suffered so intensely.  Still, even in the present day, we often choose to do nothing, rather than take the tough stand and make the unpopular decision to do what is right. It is that behavior that has allowed crime to soar, suicide to skyrocket and evil to reign in the world. 
 
God’s people need to hit their knees and pray–then, we need to take a stand and call evil–EVIL. Not a bad choice, not a poor decision–EVIL. We need to train our kids and ourselves to take responsibility for our lives and our actions.  Help me Lord to do that very thing!
 
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In the course of time, Amnon the son of David fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of Absalom the son of David.

Amnon became so obsessed with his sister Tamar that he made himself ill. She was a virgin, and it seemed impossible for him to do anything to her.

Now Amnon had an adviser named Jonadab son of Shimeah, David’s brother. Jonadab was a very shrewd man. He asked Amnon, “Why do you, the king’s son, look so haggard morning after morning? Won’t you tell me?”

Amnon said to him, “I’m in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”

“Go to bed and pretend to be ill,” Jonadab said. “When your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘I would like my sister Tamar to come and give me something to eat. Let her prepare the food in my sight so I may watch her and then eat it from her hand.’”

So Amnon lay down and pretended to be ill. When the king came to see him, Amnon said to him, “I would like my sister Tamar to come and make some special bread in my sight, so I may eat from her hand.”

David sent word to Tamar at the palace: “Go to the house of your brother Amnon and prepare some food for him.” So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down. She took some dough, kneaded it, made the bread in his sight and baked it.Then she took the pan and served him the bread, but he refused to eat.

“Send everyone out of here,” Amnon said. So everyone left him. 10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food here into my bedroom so I may eat from your hand.” And Tamar took the bread she had prepared and brought it to her brother Amnon in his bedroom. 11 But when she took it to him to eat, he grabbed her and said, “Come to bed with me, my sister.”

12 “No, my brother!” she said to him. “Don’t force me! Such a thing should not be done in Israel! Don’t do this wicked thing. 13 What about me? Where could I get rid of my disgrace? And what about you? You would be like one of the wicked fools in Israel. Please speak to the king; he will not keep me from being married to you.” 14 But he refused to listen to her, and since he was stronger than she, he raped her.

15 Then Amnon hated her with intense hatred. In fact, he hated her more than he had loved her. Amnon said to her, “Get up and get out!”

2 Samuel 12 Part 2–God Does Not Change His Mind!

David’s sin was great. He stole a man’s wife and then had the man killed. In the midst of that sin, however, David repented and accepted God’s judgment. He made no excuse, nor did he try to lie or blame others. He simply repented. So when God told him that the son that Bathsheba delivered would die, David was heartbroken. He fasted and did everything in “His” power to try to cause God to change his mind.  But, after a week the child died. David got up and carried on.  Then David and Bathsheba had a second child–God Loved the child and named him Jedidiah.  We all know him as Solomon!
 
Sin has a price.  When we fail, God will forgive us and we can start again, but, we have to know that God will not take away the ramifications of our sin. It is comforting, however, to know that even in the midst of that, God does love us and will often restore us after our failure.  We must never expect God to ignore our sin, but, we also can never underestimate the power of God’s grace and mercy. On this resurrection weekend, God’s chosen can cling to the hope of the salvation that we receive. The salvation that came at a great price. One that God paid with His own blood and tears! Make no mistake, God does not change His mind. We can be forever grateful that He did not! Happy Easter.
 
God Bless You!

 Then David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.”

Nathan replied, “The Lord has taken away your sin. You are not going to die. 14 But because by doing this you have shown utter contempt for[a] the Lord, the son born to you will die.”

15 After Nathan had gone home, the Lord struck the child that Uriah’s wife had borne to David, and he became ill. 16 David pleaded with God for the child. He fasted and spent the nights lying in sackcloth[b] on the ground. 17 The elders of his household stood beside him to get him up from the ground, but he refused, and he would not eat any food with them.

18 On the seventh day, the child died. David’s attendants were afraid to tell him that the child was dead, for they thought, “While the child was still living, he wouldn’t listen to us when we spoke to him. How can we now tell him the child is dead? He may do something desperate.”

19 David noticed that his attendants were whispering among themselves, and he realized the child was dead. “Is the child dead?” he asked.

“Yes,” they replied, “he is dead.”

20 Then David got up from the ground. After he had washed, put on lotions and changed his clothes, he went into the house of the Lord and worshiped. Then he went to his own house, and at his request, they served him food, and he ate.

21 His attendants asked him, “Why are you acting this way? While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but now that the child is dead, you get up and eat!”

22 He answered, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, ‘Who knows? The Lord may be gracious to me and let the child live.’ 23 But now that he is dead, why should I go on fasting? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me.”

2 Samuel 10–Practicing Diplomacy

As any good king would, David sent emissaries to the new Ammonite king to express his condolences for the loss of the king’s father.  The youthful king listened to his military chiefs that convinced the new king that David was spying and that the emissaries were coming for preparation to attack.  The king humiliated David’s emissaries and sent them back in complete shame.  That was a big mistake.  

After the humiliation, rather than admit he was wrong, the new king hired mercenaries to take on Israel.  So David sent his entire army and with God’s leading destroyed the armies and ended any thought of coming against Israel again. three more nations were now subject to Israel.  What an odd way for diplomacy to impact the kingdom.

Once again, God did amazing things with unfortunate circumstances.  David had a great heart. He sent his men in good faith. But, when the enemy turned a kind gesture into a war, God responded in the way a Father cares for his children. David’s men recovered and David’s kingdom was avenged and strengthened.  

In our lives, like David’s, we must live in a way that reveals God in our lives. Kindness, generosity, and empathy should be part of our humble focus on God. When, however, the world responds selfishly, we must not be surprised nor unprepared.  We live lives seeking God and allow him to lead us through the series of unfortunate circumstances. knowing that the Lord is still large and in charge. We can never give up, lose hope or become like the world. Instead, we live focused upon God and his leadership and trust God will make things right.  It worked for David and it will work for us!

God Bless You

In the course of time, the king of the Ammonites died, and his son Hanun succeeded him as king. David thought, “I will show kindness to Hanun the son of Nahash, just as his father showed kindness to me.” So David sent a delegation to express his sympathy to Hanun concerning his father.

When David’s men came to the land of the Ammonites, the Ammonite commanders said to Hanun their lord, “Do you think David is honoring your father by sending envoys to you to express sympathy? Hasn’t David sent them to you only to explore the city and spy it out and overthrow it?” So Hanun seized David’s envoys, shaved off half of each man’s beard, cut off their garments at the buttocks, and sent them away.

When David was told about this, he sent messengers to meet the men, for they were greatly humiliated. The king said, “Stay at Jericho till your beards have grown, and then come back.”

When the Ammonites realized that they had become obnoxious to David, they hired twenty thousand Aramean foot soldiers from Beth Rehob and Zobah, as well as the king of Maakah with a thousand men, and also twelve thousand men from Tob.

On hearing this, David sent Joab out with the entire army of fighting men. The Ammonites came out and drew up in battle formation at the entrance of their city gate, while the Arameans of Zobah and Rehob and the men of Tob and Maakah were by themselves in the open country.

Joab saw that there were battle lines in front of him and behind him; so he selected some of the best troops in Israel and deployed them against the Arameans. 10 He put the rest of the men under the command of Abishai his brother and deployed them against the Ammonites.11 Joab said, “If the Arameans are too strong for me, then you are to come to my rescue; but if the Ammonites are too strong for you, then I will come to rescue you. 12 Be strong, and let us fight bravely for our people and the cities of our God. The Lord will do what is good in his sight.”

1 Samuel 25 Part 3–Vengeance is Mine

After Abagail repaired the relationship with David and his men, she went home and prepared to tell her husband what transpired. Sadly, he and his buddies were drunk and could not comprehend the gravity of what Nabal had done. So Abagail waited until the next morning after Nabal was sober.  Then she told him the whole story.  The reality of his stupidity hit him like a train. He had a heart attack and died 10 days later.  David was avenged, Abagail was free from her awful husband and David–who had his wife Michal taken away by the king–now made this superhero woman his wife.  It was a great day for the fugitive king and for Abagail.
 
Life is funny. Often things happen in the normal course of events that vindicate those that follow God.  It seems strange, but they are blessed without having to raise a finger in anger or protest.  The Lord has told us throughout his word that if we will trust in Him, follow Him and depend upon him–then He will avenge and He will repay.  He also promises to make our paths straight. He will always be our greatest advocate and most avid support.  In Romans, Paul tells us that whatever our trials are, they do not compare to the rewards that await us. Romans 8:18.  We, like David, can always cling to the ultimate truth that our Father loves us and will be our advocate, protector and if need be, our avenger! What an amazing thing to know!!!
 
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Then David accepted from her hand what she had brought him and said, “Go home in peace. I have heard your words and granted your request.”

36 When Abigail went to Nabal, he was in the house holding a banquet like that of a king. He was in high spirits and very drunk. So she told him nothing at all until daybreak. 37 Then in the morning, when Nabal was sober, his wife told him all these things, and his heart failed him and he became like a stone. 38 About ten days later, the Lord struck Nabal and he died.

39 When David heard that Nabal was dead, he said, “Praise be to the Lord, who has upheld my cause against Nabal for treating me with contempt. He has kept his servant from doing wrong and has brought Nabal’s wrongdoing down on his own head.”

Then David sent word to Abigail, asking her to become his wife. 40 His servants went to Carmel and said to Abigail, “David has sent us to you to take you to become his wife.”

41 She bowed down with her face to the ground and said, “I am your servant and am ready to serve you and wash the feet of my lord’s servants.” 42 Abigail quickly got on a donkey and, attended by her five female servants, went with David’s messengers and became his wife.43 David had also married Ahinoam of Jezreel, and they both were his wives. 44 But Saul had given his daughter Michal, David’s wife, to Paltiel[d] son of Laish, who was from Gallim.

I Samuel 25 Part 2–Abagail, A True Superhero

There are few stories more amazing than the story of Abagail. She was the wife of a selfish man. Nabal, while wealthy, was mean and short-sighted. He insulted David and his men after they had protected his workers and their sheep.  David was angry and was ready to wipe the man out. When Nabal’s wife heard what had happened–she dived in and literally saved the day.  She made provisions for David and his men’s efforts, she made an apology for her husband’s behavior and she made peace with the future King of Israel.  She was not directed to do so by her husband–in fact, she did all this despite him.

 

David was amazed and accepted the gift and apology. He forgave Nabal even though Nabal had not changed one bit. David was a gracious man and saw that despite Nabal’s idiocy, he had at least married a great woman that should not be punished because of him. She was a superhero.

 

In my life and many lives of men I know, we would be lost without the great wives God gave us.  They work tirelessly to make our houses homes. They raise our kids to be ladies and gentlemen and to have lives that matter and are great. They make sure we look and act our best and prepare meals, holidays, vacations and life events. The most amazing part is that they do this for little or no recognition. They perform a labor of love that truly leaves a legacy of greatness many generations after they are gone.  Thanks, Lord, for giving me and my children a superhero mom. 

 

God Bless You

 

 Abigail acted quickly. She took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five dressed sheep, five seahs[b] of roasted grain, a hundred cakes of raisins and two hundred cakes of pressed figs, and loaded them on donkeys. 19 Then she told her servants, “Go on ahead; I’ll follow you.” But she did not tell her husband Nabal.

20 As she came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, there were David and his men descending toward her, and she met them. 21 David had just said, “It’s been useless—all my watching over this fellow’s property in the wilderness so that nothing of his was missing. He has paid me back evil for good. 22 May God deal with David,[c] be it ever so severely if by morning I leave alive one male of all who belongs to him!”

23 When Abigail saw David, she quickly got off her donkey and bowed down before David with her face to the ground. 24 She fell at his feet and said: “Pardon your servant, my lord, and let me speak to you; hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, to that wicked man Nabal. He is just like his name—his name means Fool, and folly goes with him. And as for me, your servant, I did not see the men my lord sent. 26 And now, my lord, as surely as the Lord your God lives and as you live, since the Lord has kept you from bloodshed and from avenging yourself with your own hands, may your enemies and all who are intent on harming my lord be like Nabal. 27 And let this gift, which your servant has brought to my lord, be given to the men who follow you.

28 “Please forgive your servant’s presumption. The Lord your God will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my lord because you fight the Lord’s battles, and no wrongdoing will be found in you as long as you live. 29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my lord will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the Lord your God, but the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling. 30 When the Lord has fulfilled for my lord every good thing he promised concerning him and has appointed him ruler over Israel, 31 my lord will not have on his conscience the staggering burden of needless bloodshed or of having avenged himself. And when the Lord your God has brought my lord success, remember your servant.”

32 David said to Abigail, “Praise be to the Lord, the God of Israel, who has sent you today to meet me. 33 May you be blessed for your good judgment and for keeping me from bloodshed this day and from avenging myself with my own hands. 34 Otherwise, as surely as the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, who has kept me from harming you, if you had not come quickly to meet me, not one male belonging to Nabal would have been left alive by daybreak.”

35 Then David accepted from her hand what she had brought him and said, “Go home in peace. I have heard your words and granted your request.”

I Samuel 24 Part 1–What a Relief!

David was wrongfully accused of being a traitor. Saul was intent on killing him.  No one else in the kingdom was against David, and if Saul was gone–well David was God’s anointed king! So, When Saul went into the cave to use the restroom, he was very vulnerable to David. David could have killed him, but instead, David just cut a corner of Saul’s robe off and kept it.  Saul finished up, got dressed and went on his way, never the wiser that his life was in such great danger.  But, then reality set in.  David appeared, called out to Saul, and showed him that he–David had spared the king’s life.  Saul was truly at a crossroads.
 
In our lives, we are faced often with choices that we know would be expedient, but not necessarily right. It would ease our pain or stress–but, it would either not honor God or it would hurt others. The nature of God’s spirit in our lives leads us to be selfless, to be like Christ.  The choices that face us, while difficult, fall on the side of honoring God–not meeting our selfish agendas. In the end, if we do follow him closely, and make the choices that honor God; then, we begin to receive the peace and joy that only the Lord can give. God’s peace and joy is true relief from a chaotic and senseless world. It will carry us through trials, temptation and the curveballs that life continues to throw at us!
 
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After Saul returned from pursuing the Philistines, he was told, “David is in the Desert of En Gedi.” So Saul took three thousand able young men from all Israel and set out to look for David and his men near the Crags of the Wild Goats.

He came to the sheep pens along the way; a cave was there, and Saul went in to relieve himself. David and his men were far back in the cave. The men said, “This is the day the Lord spoke of when he said[b] to you, ‘I will give your enemy into your hands for you to deal with as you wish.’” Then David crept up unnoticed and cut off a corner of Saul’s robe.

Afterward, David was conscience-stricken for having cut off a corner of his robe. He said to his men, “The Lord forbid that I should do such a thing to my master, the Lord’s anointed, or lay my hand on him; for he is the anointed of the Lord.” With these words, David sharply rebuked his men and did not allow them to attack Saul. And Saul left the cave and went his way.

Then David went out of the cave and called out to Saul, “My lord the king!” When Saul looked behind him, David bowed down and prostrated himself with his face to the ground. He said to Saul, “Why do you listen when men say, ‘David is bent on harming you’? 10 This day you have seen with your own eyes how the Lord delivered you into my hands in the cave. Some urged me to kill you, but I spared you; I said, ‘I will not lay my hand on my lord, because he is the Lord’s anointed.’

I Samuel 22 part 1–David on the Run

With nothing in hand and nowhere to go, David headed into the land of Israel’s enemies. 1st David escaped to the King of Gath–(Goliath the Giant from Gath).  He hid out in Gath for a period, knowing Saul would not hunt him there.  Next, he headed to Moab–the place where Saul first made his name by wiping out several people.  David tried his best to go where he would not be attacked and where spies would not chase back to Saul and get him captured.  One can imagine the humbling experience that David faced standing before the leaders of lands he helped to defeat.
 
The good news was that as he was on the run, he was beginning to gather a group of men to command. It was a ragtag crew, but they would be what he needed as he faced the days ahead.  One can be sure as David started this phase of the journey, it looked nothing like what he would have ever hoped or dreamed.
 
In our journey, so many of the choices we make and directions we are pulled seem nothing like we expected in our youth.  It drives us crazy, it tests our faith and it slowly refines us into the people God calls us to be.  There is no easy way to become your best. It requires discipline, it requires training and it requires adversity, spiritual warfare and a long term (eternal) vision of life.  David would never have signed up for the anointing as king if he had known what God was going to take him through to be the greatest king Israel ever knew. He did, however, face each day, each trial and each disappointment fully relying upon God. Like David, we must look beyond what is and reach for what God has planned. We must remain grateful, humble and faithful no matter how difficult the journey becomes.  Help me, Lord to remain faithful in trials, grateful in blessings and humble in submission to Your lead!   
 
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That day David fled from Saul and went to Achish king of Gath. 11 But the servants of Achish said to him, “Isn’t this David, the king of the land? Isn’t he the one they sing about in their dances:

“‘Saul has slain his thousands,
and David his tens of thousands’?”

12 David took these words to heart and was very much afraid of Achish king of Gath. 13 So he pretended to be insane in their presence; and while he was in their hands he acted like a madman, making marks on the doors of the gate and letting saliva run down his beard.

14 Achish said to his servants, “Look at the man! He is insane! Why bring him to me? 15 Am I so short of madmen that you have to bring this fellow here to carry on like this in front of me? Must this man come into my house?”…

David left Gath and escaped to the cave of Adullam. When his brothers and his father’s household heard about it, they went down to him there. All those who were in distress or in debt or discontented gathered around him, and he became their commander. About four hundred men were with him.

From there David went to Mizpah in Moab and said to the king of Moab, “Would you let my father and mother come and stay with you until I learn what God will do for me?” So he left them with the king of Moab, and they stayed with him as long as David was in the stronghold.

But the prophet Gad said to David, “Do not stay in the stronghold. Go into the land of Judah.” So David left and went to the forest of Hereth.