There are few stories more amazing than the story of Abagail. She was the wife of a selfish man. Nabal, while wealthy, was mean and short-sighted. He insulted David and his men after they had protected his workers and their sheep. David was angry and was ready to wipe the man out. When Nabal’s wife heard what had happened–she dived in and literally saved the day. She made provisions for David and his men’s efforts, she made an apology for her husband’s behavior and she made peace with the future King of Israel. She was not directed to do so by her husband–in fact, she did all this despite him.
David was amazed and accepted the gift and apology. He forgave Nabal even though Nabal had not changed one bit. David was a gracious man and saw that despite Nabal’s idiocy, he had at least married a great woman that should not be punished because of him. She was a superhero.
In my life and many lives of men I know, we would be lost without the great wives God gave us. They work tirelessly to make our houses homes. They raise our kids to be ladies and gentlemen and to have lives that matter and are great. They make sure we look and act our best and prepare meals, holidays, vacations and life events. The most amazing part is that they do this for little or no recognition. They perform a labor of love that truly leaves a legacy of greatness many generations after they are gone. Thanks, Lord, for giving me and my children a superhero mom.
God Bless You
Abigail acted quickly. She took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five dressed sheep, five seahs[b] of roasted grain, a hundred cakes of raisins and two hundred cakes of pressed figs, and loaded them on donkeys. 19 Then she told her servants, “Go on ahead; I’ll follow you.” But she did not tell her husband Nabal.
20 As she came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, there were David and his men descending toward her, and she met them. 21 David had just said, “It’s been useless—all my watching over this fellow’s property in the wilderness so that nothing of his was missing. He has paid me back evil for good. 22 May God deal with David,[c] be it ever so severely if by morning I leave alive one male of all who belongs to him!”
23 When Abigail saw David, she quickly got off her donkey and bowed down before David with her face to the ground. 24 She fell at his feet and said: “Pardon your servant, my lord, and let me speak to you; hear what your servant has to say. 25 Please pay no attention, my lord, to that wicked man Nabal. He is just like his name—his name means Fool, and folly goes with him. And as for me, your servant, I did not see the men my lord sent. 26 And now, my lord, as surely as the Lord your God lives and as you live, since the Lord has kept you from bloodshed and from avenging yourself with your own hands, may your enemies and all who are intent on harming my lord be like Nabal. 27 And let this gift, which your servant has brought to my lord, be given to the men who follow you.
28 “Please forgive your servant’s presumption. The Lord your God will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my lord because you fight the Lord’s battles, and no wrongdoing will be found in you as long as you live. 29 Even though someone is pursuing you to take your life, the life of my lord will be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the Lord your God, but the lives of your enemies he will hurl away as from the pocket of a sling. 30 When the Lord has fulfilled for my lord every good thing he promised concerning him and has appointed him ruler over Israel, 31 my lord will not have on his conscience the staggering burden of needless bloodshed or of having avenged himself. And when the Lord your God has brought my lord success, remember your servant.”
32 David said to Abigail, “Praise be to the Lord, the God of Israel, who has sent you today to meet me. 33 May you be blessed for your good judgment and for keeping me from bloodshed this day and from avenging myself with my own hands. 34 Otherwise, as surely as the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, who has kept me from harming you, if you had not come quickly to meet me, not one male belonging to Nabal would have been left alive by daybreak.”
35 Then David accepted from her hand what she had brought him and said, “Go home in peace. I have heard your words and granted your request.”